Rest: The Secret Weapon You’re Too Stubborn to Use
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Rest: The Secret Weapon You’re Too Stubborn to Use

Rest? Overrated. Or so we tell ourselves while running on fumes and wondering why we put our phone in the fridge. The truth? Rest isn’t laziness—it’s a life hack.

Science says it lowers stress, boosts focus, and keeps us from turning into cranky zombies. So, schedule that guilt-free nap, take a deep breath, and embrace the radical act of doing absolutely nothing. Your future, well-rested self will thank you.

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Not Yours to Define: My Joy, My Journey
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Not Yours to Define: My Joy, My Journey

Don’t let anyone tell you what you can or can’t do—including that voice in your own head. Stand tall, breathe deep, and stretch yourself. Try the thing you think you can’t—you might just surprise yourself.

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How Women Should Negotiate Differently Than Men
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

How Women Should Negotiate Differently Than Men

Women can navigate negotiation challenges by framing requests as mutually beneficial, using data to justify asks, and advocating as if for a team. Overcoming imposter syndrome, rejecting the first offer, and practicing negotiation regularly can lead to better outcomes. Always negotiate—because men do.

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Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People

The people you surround yourself with can either fuel your growth or keep you stuck. Growth-minded individuals challenge you to think bigger, embrace change, and step into your full potential. Inspired by Brené Brown’s research on wholehearted living, this post explores why your inner circle matters, how to find people who uplift and support your journey, and how the right relationships create a foundation for lasting personal transformation. If you’re ready to cultivate a circle that inspires progress, this is for you.

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What Do You Do? How to Answer with Confidence and Impact
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

What Do You Do? How to Answer with Confidence and Impact

You’re at a gathering, drink in hand, when someone asks, “So, what do you do?”

Cue the internal scramble. Do you give a vague answer? Ramble on? Or confidently spark a conversation that leaves them genuinely interested?

Your response isn’t just small talk—it’s an opportunity. The right answer can make you memorable, open doors, and even clarify your own purpose.

So, how do you craft a response that truly connects? Let’s dive in. ⬇️

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Mentors Are Not Unicorns—So Stop Searching for One!
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Mentors Are Not Unicorns—So Stop Searching for One!

Mentors aren’t magical unicorns—you won’t find just one person with all the answers. Instead, you need a team of mentors for different areas of life—career, leadership, parenting, and personal growth. And if you're looking for someone to help you connect all the dots? A life coach might be exactly what you need. Stop searching for perfection and start building your mentorship dream team!

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How an Accountability Partner Can Help You Through Life Transitions
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

How an Accountability Partner Can Help You Through Life Transitions

Struggling to follow through on life changes? Whether you're transitioning to a new career, navigating a breakup, becoming an empty nester, stepping into retirement, or seeking more balance in life, having an accountability partner can make all the difference. A life coach doesn’t just help you set goals—they keep you on track, challenge your excuses, and celebrate your wins. Discover how having someone in your corner can turn intention into action and make your transition smoother, more intentional, and ultimately, more successful. Ready to stop overthinking and start moving forward? Let’s dive in! 🚀

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The Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had: The Science and Practice of Breathwork
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

The Superpower You Didn’t Know You Had: The Science and Practice of Breathwork

Unlock the transformative power of your breath—a built-in superpower that can calm your mind, reduce stress, and enhance focus. This blog explores the science behind breathwork, revealing how conscious breathing regulates your nervous system, balances oxygen and CO2, and improves mental and physical well-being.

Explore simple breathwork techniques like box breathing and 4-7-8 breathing to enhance resilience, mindfulness, and overall health—one breath at a time.

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Reconnect with Yourself Through Gratitude and Forest Bathing
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Reconnect with Yourself Through Gratitude and Forest Bathing

In today’s fast-paced world, forest bathing, or shinrin-yoku, offers a powerful way to reconnect with nature and yourself. By immersing your senses in the beauty of the natural world, you create space for calm, clarity, and renewal. Adding gratitude to this practice deepens the experience, helping you reflect on life’s simple joys and moments of peace. Together, forest bathing and gratitude reduce stress, boost resilience, and foster a profound sense of connection—to nature, to others, and to yourself. Wherever you are, take time to slow down, breathe deeply, and embrace the gifts around you.

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Breaking Free from Perfectionism
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Breaking Free from Perfectionism

Perfectionism often traps us in a cycle of procrastination and anxiety, driven by fear of imperfection. This blog explores how the 80/20 rule (focusing on the 20% of efforts that yield 80% of results) can help break free from perfectionism. It encourages setting realistic standards, using time limits, practicing self-compassion, and celebrating progress over flawlessness. By letting go of unattainable ideals and embracing meaningful action, you can achieve more, stress less, and find fulfillment in progress, not perfection.

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Facing Fear: Why the Unknown Isn’t as Scary as You Think
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Facing Fear: Why the Unknown Isn’t as Scary as You Think

Fear of the unknown often feels like a roaring lion, stopping us from stepping into the life we truly want. In this blog, I explore the most common fears holding women back—financial insecurity, past failures, societal expectations—and how to move past them with courage, clarity, and small actionable steps. The unknown doesn’t have to be dangerous; it can be the gateway to extraordinary possibilities.

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The Power of Starting Small: How Tiny Steps Lead to Big Changes
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

The Power of Starting Small: How Tiny Steps Lead to Big Changes

Feeling overwhelmed by big goals and endless to-do lists? Learn how starting small and focusing on tiny, consistent actions can help you build habits, gain momentum, and achieve meaningful change. Discover strategies like setting a minimum baseline, staying accountable, and celebrating small wins to transform your approach and create lasting success.

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Finding Your Path: Embracing Life’s Uncertainty
Wendy Wheeler Wendy Wheeler

Finding Your Path: Embracing Life’s Uncertainty

This blog post explores how life transitions, while daunting, are opportunities for women to create their own unique paths. Inspired by Joseph Campbell's quote, it emphasizes that true paths are built step-by-step through courage, self-reflection, and aligned action, even in the face of fear and uncertainty. As a transitional life coach, I help women navigate crises of clarity, guiding them to trust themselves, embrace change, and build supportive communities. The journey to fulfillment is about creating a path that aligns with one’s authentic self, finding strength in every brave step forward.

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